Friday, May 15, 2009

Blessed to be born a woman!!!

The other day, while shopping with my mom and my 4-year-old daughter, I commented to my baby girl, "How wonderful that God made us women that we get to wear pretty shoes and clothes!" She said, "Yes!"

I just read an article by Rebecca Walker, daughter of Alice Walker who authored the infamous book .

To my surprise, Rececca Walker has a complete opposite viewpoint from her feminist mother. She talks about how opposing her mother's ideology costs their mother-daughter relationship.

Feminists have us believe that staying at home to raise our children is a sign of weakness and that we should be out in the world achieving and accomplishing something instead of being belittled and doing the mindless things like cooking and cleaning...serving our familiies. How the world has perverted and distorted what motherhood God had intended!!

I believe that God's calling for each woman is different. Some are called to be perhaps someday President of the United States, some are called to be teachers and many of us are called to be mothers, the biggest job in the world... raising our children to fulfill their God-given purposes! (...which we simply cannot do on our own strength and wisdom).

Once we accept the incredible assignment of motherhood, understand the enormity of the task and realize that only our Creator can enable us to achieve the assignment, joy of motherhood begins.

I am extremely blessed to be home to raise our children while my husband provides for us financially; by no means I feel I contribute any less than he, and fortunately, he feels the same way.

Every moment with our children can be teachable moments, both for them and for me.

I am often touched by my children's little sayings confessing their faith, signs of their precious relationship with our Creator, and praises of thanksgiving of life's special moments--happy or sad.

I am blessed to have a mother that shows me what motherly love looks like.


Every day, I am thankful that I am a stay-at-home wife and mother; most of all, I am thankful for having a Father in heaven that makes His love known to me in a personal way.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

911 call...testing, testing...

Well, here's a funny story for you...

A couple of weeks ago, I was out for a meeting leaving my mother with 2 kids. Mom has experience keeping the kids alone before and it's never been a problem for her.

I called home on my way home that day and asked mom, "Is everything okay? Have the kids been behaving for you?" She replied, "I'll let your son tell you, hold on..." Then Matthew got on the phone hysterically, "Mom, I haven't been good." I asked curiously, "Why? What happened?" He cried, "I called the police." I did not know what to think...what police? why would he do that?

I drew a blank.

Then my mom came back on the phone and said that he'd called 911 and 10 minutes later, 2 policemen showed up to the door. My mom answered the door as both of the kids bolted to their hiding place in one of the rooms. The police asked if everything was alright. (My mom actually speaks English when I am not with her!!!)She said to the police that she thinks that one of the kids had dialed 911 and there was really nothing wrong. The police were understanding and left.

When I got home, I asked Matthew why he called 911, he explained that he'd watched a kids program that day about safety and emergency and they talked about calling 911 for emergency.
He did not do that out of mischief, which gave me comfort.

When his dad came home, he was able to get the "step-by-step" detail from our son. He explained further that as the TV program taught about fire emergency and different safety tips, he remembered that his mom (me)has told him not to believe everything TV tells him. SO... Matthew decided to test it out. Well, he found out that it's true...911 will get the police to come.

He has learned his lesson on when to and when not to make an emergency call this day.

Wow, have I abandoned my blog??!!

Time has completely slipped by me between meetings, reading, kids' birthdays, birthday parties and mom's visit.

I hope to not leave this blog for this extended time period again, by His grace!!